Showing posts with label Campus Tragedy. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 03, 2013

Vigil Honors SigEp Student Killed in Crash

Vigil honors student | The East Carolinian:

Sigma Phi Epsilon held a candlelight vigil on Dec. 2 for fellow fraternity brother Edward Blake Tolley who died in a car accident on Friday, Nov. 29.
He died in a car accident Friday in Raleigh, according to President of Sigma Phi Epsilon, Clay Schools.

An article on WRAL stated that the driver of the vehicle, Logan Aronson, was traveling around 90 mph with Tolley in the passenger when he went off the road and hit three trees. Neither Aronson nor Tolley survived the wreck.

Schools said the fraternity is working together to deal with the loss.

“It’s sad, but having each other really helps to deal with that pain,” said Schools.

Tolley was also heavily involved in the fraternity, according to Alex Puente, a brother of Sigma Phi Epsilon and close friend of Tolley’s.

“He was a fraternity man,” said Puente. “He took that seriously and he was involved in a lot of events we had.”

Puente said that Tolley was great person to have around.

“Blake was a really smart guy, full of jokes, a really witty guy,” said Puente. “He could talk to anybody about anything; that was the kind of guy he was.”

Tolley was also a model of school spirit, and he also appreciated vinyl records.

“He wore more purple than anyone ever did at any football game,” said Puente. “He had a record player and had almost 100 records.”

He was home visiting his family for Thanksgiving break when the crash occurred.

“He was a real family man he was always going home to see his family,” Puente said.

Tolley was a construction management major at ECU and was planning on working at a construction firm he interned for in Washington D.C. last summer.

“He had a whole career set out for him,” said Puente. “He knew what he was doing.”

This writer can be contacted at news@theeastcarolinain.com.

By Ryan Clancy
December 3, 2013.
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Tuesday, October 01, 2013

Sig Eps remember brother at vigil - WKU



Tragic accident takes a new member.

Sig Eps remember brother at vigil - College Heights Herald: News:



On Saturday night, members of Sigma Phi Epsilon gathered in the Valley to mourn the passing of one of their pledge brothers.
Demetrius Freeman/HERALDFordsville freshman and Sig Ep pledge Cory Beavin died Friday night, Sept. 27 in a car accident in his hometown.

Fraternity members and other friends of Beavin assembled at an intersection of sidewalks in front of McCormack, many of them holding lit candlesticks.
Ashland freshman Caitlin Brown, one of Beavin’s friends, spoke to the crowd, inviting members of Sig Ep to speak about Beavin and share their favorite memories of him they had.
Brown said little is known yet about the circumstances of Beavin’s death.
“We don’t know many details,” Brown said. “We don’t know if he was with friends or if he was the one driving. We don’t know if he was under the influence of any sort.”
During the vigil, a radio placed on a bench played music from the 2012 movie adaptation of Les Miserables.
Brown said the use of the movie’s soundtrack had two meanings.
“He loved that movie and he loved France,” she said. “He was obsessed with it.”
She said the soundtrack was also played because of a particular memory it brings to her mind.
“One of the last memories that me and three other friends of his had together is, we were in his car blasting music from Les Mis and one of our friends hated it and we were all just singing to him,” she said. “It was just one of the last memories we had together.”
During the vigil, the mourners walked around McCormack and after they returned to the area in front of the building, Andrew Cusick, a 2011 WKU graduate and former Sig Ep member, led the fraternity members in singing Alabama’s ‘Dixieland Delight’, which he said is their fraternal song.
When the singing was over, the mourners were invited to write messages on a posterboard that will be displayed at the funeral or on notecards that were then affixed to a small crucifix.
Brown said information about the funeral will be made available as soon as possible.
Louisville freshman and one of Beavin’s pledge brothers, Nick Vaetens, said he got to know Cory during their time in Sig Ep.
He said he thinks Beavin’s death has brought the fraternity closer together.
“We’re showing respect and love to a brother,” he said. “Not everybody in the house, not all the alumni knew him but we all come together. We take care of our own.”
Brown said Beavin’s death has been difficult for her and for Sig Ep. “We’re taking this very hard right now,” Brown said. “We’re all very solemn and very depressed but we’ve all stayed together today to just be there for each other.”
She said it was difficult to lose Beavin because “his life just began, his adult life in college. He didn’t even get to live not even a year of it.”
“We were all going to go out when he got back and, you know, be together and now we’re just here for each other instead of with him,” she said.

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Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Penn student dies weeks after apparent fall on campus

"While he was no longer affiliated with the chapter, he remained close with many of the undergraduate members. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends." -- Brian Warren Jr.
Penn student dies weeks after apparent fall on campus

With perfect SAT scores and on full scholarship at the University of Pennsylvania, Thomas J. Hartford had a bright future and the brightest of outlooks.

"He lived life to the fullest," his father said.

But that life came to a tragic end on Wednesday after Hartford, 22, a senior from Stroudsburg, suffered a massive stroke following an apparent fall on campus nearly two weeks ago.

Hartford's body was found in a pool of blood on a concrete surface outside the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity house about 1:30 a.m. on Jan. 10, said his father, Thomas W. Hartford. He had been in intensive care at the University of Pennsylvania Hospital.

His son, he said, had attended a gathering for potential new members at the fraternity house on the evening of Jan. 9. After the event ended, he remained at the house, socializing with a small group of friends, the father said. His son was last seen at 12:45 a.m.

Hartford suffered multiple skull and facial fractures, severe brain trauma, a broken wrist and optical nerve damage, he said.

The doctor told him the injuries were consistent with a fall from about 15 to 20 feet, he said. University of Pennsylvania detectives who investigated told him they believe Hartford either fell from the window or had been locked out and was climbing up to get in the window.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

22 NIU frat members charged in freshman's hazing death

Quoting Michael Ellis from his Facebook post:

A young person's death is a tragedy in everyone's eyes. The vanquishing of the bright future of a young man, because of silly over-indulging in alcohol is saddening, dismaying, disheartening.

The letters on this young man's sweat shirt were not Sigma Phi Epsilon -- this time. But this tragedy happened to all fraternity members everywhere, regardless of campus, fraternity affiliation or year of graduation.

Please take the time to talk about this event, its root causes, and whatever we can do in our own chapters to ensure that our Brothers are informed and educated about the choices they make and that they press others to make. No one has to behave this way and by the time you're 18 - 22, you really need to know better and do better. *Let's all get better at making sure everyone understands that*.

22 NIU frat members charged in freshman's hazing death - chicagotribune.com

(Note: the video was removed becaus of an "autoplay" issue. It can still be found on the Chicago Tribune link abouve)

Wednesday, December 05, 2012

Hearing held for murder suspects, Northwest remembers fallen student with ceremony

This is an update to an earlier story about the death of SigEp Tomarkin Smith.

Hearing held for murder suspects, Northwest remember fallen student with ceremony - Northwest Missourian: Community

Northwest will remember the spirit of a fallen student with a bell ringing ceremony Dec. 14 at 10:30 a.m.

After a late-night altercation, Kevin D. Mooney, 31, and Tony M. Overlin, 23, of Bethany, Mo., were charged with second degree murder and felony assault in the death of Tomarken Smith Sept. 14.

A preliminary hearing for Mooney on Tuesday afternoon was attended by many Sigma Phi Epsilon members and included testimonies from Sgt. Rick Smail, Maryville Public Safety, witness Kenny Forrester, witness Matthew Reynolds and Sig Ep member Colby Branstine, a close friend of Smith. Smail testified that he did not see who started the altercation inside Molly’s between Overlin and Smith, but he did identify the men running from the scene outside to be Overlin and Mooney. Overlin was often referred to as “the man with tattoos” and was said to be the one whom Smith pushed down in the bar and who, according to Forrester and Reynolds, was the first to assault Smith outside. The defendant, Mooney, was identified by all witnesses, and according to Forrester and Reynolds, was the one who hit Smith to the ground.

The hearing was completed and is under advisement. Judge Corey Keith Herron will make the decision on whether the case will move to circuit court. No date was released for when this information will be available.

On the three-month anniversary of Smith’s passing, there will be a bell ringing ceremony. The bell ringing will be followed by the commencement ceremony at 1 p.m. in Bearcat Arena where Smith’s family will be accepting a posthumous degree on Smith’s behalf. This degree recognizes the achievement of students who have died and completed most of their curriculum.

Northwest President John Jasinski said he recognizes the whole community has been greatly impacted by Tomarken’s passing this fall, therefore, it is appropriate to honor his memory with next week’s bell ringing.

“He was deeply engaged in the University culture through his coursework, membership in his fraternity and as a student employee,” Jasinski said.

Sigma Phi Epsilon President Chase Adams said after everything his chapter and Tomarken’s family have been through with this tragedy, this is some of the best news they have received.

“Tomarken was a remarkably dedicated individual, and he really wanted to be the first person in his family to graduate from college,” Adams said. “Although T.O. is gone, his family can forever be proud of his accomplishments and hold in their possession what Tomarken was striving for: a college degree. I can’t wait to see the smile on his mother’s face. I know she is going to be so proud.”

Friday, September 14, 2012

Northwest Missouri SigEp Dies After Assault

It is tragic when a young man loses his life. Especially so when he is attacked after defending his friends. Usually when we see a death it involves hazing, or gross overuse of alcohol. Regardless of what the article says, we see this as more than just "a simple fight with deadly consequences." This was an honorable young man who paid dearly for being honorable.
Student from Jennings at NW Missouri State dies after attack; two suspects charged : Stltoday

More details surface on death of Northwest student - Northwest Missourian: News

Tomarken Smith 
A Northwest student died last night after an altercation in front of Molly's Party Club early Friday morning.

Senior Tomarken Smith, 21, was pronounced dead as the result of an alleged assault at 2:21 a.m. Friday at St. Francis Hospital and Health Services. Smith was from St. Louis.

Senior Colby Morris, a friend of Smith’s who was with him at the club, said the altercation began when Smith tried to stop one of the accused men from dancing with one of Smith’s female friends. Maryville Public Safety reported the two accused waited for Smith outside of the bar.

"You guys lost a good kid," Keith Wood, director of Maryville Public Safety said. "It was a simple fight that had deadly consequences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as a student body."

Kevin D. Mooney has been charged with a class A felony murder in the second degree and a class A felony assault in the first degree. Tony M. Overlin has also been charged with a class A felony murder in the second degree and a class A felony assault in the first degree, according to the Nodaway County Prosecuting Attorney's office. Bond is set at $100,000 for each defendant.

Smith was a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon. Sigma Phi Epsilon Chapter President Chase Adams said the chapter is deeply affected by the news.

"The Missouri Lambda Chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon is deeply saddened by the loss of our brother..." Adams said. "The chapter extends its heartfelt condolences to his family. This is a very tough time for all of us. Please offer your thoughts and prayers for family, friends, brothers and the campus community as we struggle to cope with this tragic loss.”

University President John Jasinski shares Sig Ep sympathies and wants people to remember Smith for who he was as an individual.

“We have to celebrate life here and celebrate Tomarken’s life,” Jasinski said. “He did all the things we would like Bearcats to do. Be engaged, be involved, be successful and be challenged. As I saw him, like many students, he wouldn’t let me walk by without saying ‘hello,’ but more importantly than that, if you talk to a variety of individuals on campus, throughout the Student Union when I was here earlier this morning, to a person he was always smiling, in a great mood and loved life.”

Monday, April 23, 2012

SDSU FRATERNITY LEADER FOUND DEAD

SDSU FRATERNITY LEADER FOUND DEAD | UTSanDiego.com: (<-link to full article)
"SAN DIEGO — A San Diego State University fraternity leader was found dead in another fraternity house Friday morning, campus officials said.

Barzeen Barzanji, 20, of Santee was president of Sigma Alpha Epsilon campus fraternity and a junior criminal justice major, school spokeswoman Gina Jacobs said.

Someone at another on-campus fraternity house, Phi Kappa Theta, called 911 around 8:30 a.m. about a student found there unresponsive, Jacobs said.

Jacobs said campus police and the county Medical Examiner’s Office were called in to investigate.

The Medical Examiner’s Office said Barzanji was found dead in bed. The cause of death has not been determined pending an autopsy, but Jacobs said a preliminary investigation does not indicate foul play."

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Monday, October 27, 2008

Shooting at Ark. university kills 2, wounds 1

Breaking news...

A shooting at the University of Central Arkansas late Sunday night left two people dead and one injured.
The head of the University of Central Arkansas said Monday that campus was safe after a shooting left two students dead and a third person wounded.

Police said the killings did not appear to be acts of random violence and that there was no remaining threat on the 12,500-student campus.

Police said they were questioning two people and seeking two others. All four are male and from the central Arkansas area. Police said they were not students.

Police had no motive yet for the shooting.

"It does not seem at this time that it was a random act," said campus police Lt. Preston Grumbles.

Interim president Tom Courtway, who canceled classes Monday, said, "Our campus is safe."
To the best of our knowledge, no one from the UCA SigEp Chapter was involved.

Shooting at Ark. university kills 2, wounds 1 - Yahoo! News

Friday, February 15, 2008

One NIU Victim was Greek - Pi Kappa Alpha

The SigEps at NIU were fortunate that no members were hurt in yesterday's shooting incident. The Pikes, however, lost one of their brothers.
2/15/2008

Tragedy Hits Northern Illinois, Pi Kappa Alpha Families


The Pi Kappa Alpha International Fraternity has confirmed that a member of our Eta Nu Chapter at Northern Illinois University was among those students killed in yesterday’s tragic campus shootings. Brother Dan Parmenter was initiated into Pi Kappa Alpha at Northern Illinois on December 4, 2006.

According to Chapter President Jason Garcia "Dan was always helping other people out, giving you a ride to class, helping with homework, doing community service."* He exemplified all of the qualities of a True Pike.

The International Fraternity has been in communication with Eta Nu chapter and alumni leaders and University officials.

Kevin Knaus, The International Fraternity’s President shared, “Our thoughts and prayers go out to Dan’s family and our brothers at Eta Nu as well as all of the families and friends of those whose loved ones have been lost or injured in this senseless tragedy. We pray for the healing of those wounded and our heart goes out to the greater Northern Illinois and DeKalb community at this time of inexplicable loss.”

As additional information becomes available and is appropriate to be released, the Fraternity will post updates to its web site at http://www.pikes.org.

Those wishing to convey messages of support to our Eta Nu Chapter may continue to do so by sending e-mail to the following address: pka@pikes.org.

Contact:
Justin A. Buck, Executive Director
The Pi Kappa Alpha International Fraternity
(901) 748-1868 ext. 126
(901) 748-3100 (fax)
jbuck@pikes.org
Pikes.org - Feature Story

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Breaking News - Shooting at NIU

Update (2/15/08): Latest information is that seven people, including the shooter, have died as a result of the shooting. Truly a horrible, horrible occurrence.

UPDATE(5:55 PM CST): Frank Woodin, the AVP President, has spoken with the Chapter President and he tells us that all SigEp chapter members are safe and OK.

17 students were shot on the Northern Illinois University campus today.
The gunman is dead from a self-inflicted wound.
Classes are canceled and the University is in "Shutdown" mode with NO activities taking place.

No word yet on whether any members of the IL Gamma chapter were affected. We will update when we find out.

Link to CNN for latest news.

Monday, November 19, 2007

Fraternity Brothers Remember Student Killed in Car Crash

(UPDATE 2: Obituary from the Jackson, TN "Sun"
(UPDATE: The UT "Daily Beacon" has another story that emphasizes the Fraternity aspect.")

Tennessee Alpha mourns a tragic death. Any time something like this happens it is terrible. The loss is worse when it is from your own chapter. The fact that this death was alcohol related, and thus avoidable, makes the loss that much worse.
Knoxville (WVLT) -- Students at the University of Tennessee are still getting word that one of their fellow classmates has died.

Adam Carter, 21, died Saturday morning after a single car crash.
[...]
Adam Carter was a senior at U.T. and a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity.

The brothers there are trying to cope with the shocking news tonight.

A black banner with Adam Carter's initials hangs over the greek letters at the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity house, a traditional sign of mourning.

"Everybody takes this loss really hard," said Ryan Hollis, chapter president.
[...]
Knox County Sheriff's officials say Carter lost control of his ford explorer [...] and hit a tree.

He died at the scene.
[...]
Adam was the first friend Jonathan Burlison met when he came to U.T. four years ago.

"It's gonna be tough, but as a brotherhood and a chapter, everything's going to be okay," said Burlison.
[...]
Police say alcohol and speed were a factor in the crash.

They also say Adam Carter was driving on a restricted license.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Adam's family, the chapter members, and the volunteers who regularly interact with the chapter. No one should have to deal with such a loss.

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Friday, November 09, 2007

Hazing Is Everyone's Job To Stop

(Update: We found a poem about hazing in the New York Times archives from 1906.)

Hazing, Hazing, Hazing!
Contra Costa Times – Walnut Creek California11/04/2007
By Jackie Burrell

A Chico fraternity pledge is forced to drink water until he collapses and dies.

A Chicago high school powderpuff game turns into a melee. A Fremont swim team hazing involves seniors urinating on freshmen on the pool deck.

One would think that with the growing amount of negative publicity surrounding hazings, a strong social taboo would arise against such initiation rituals.

But hazing continues today, permeating college fraternities and sororities, middle and high school bands, athletic teams and church groups.

"For some reason," said Hank Nuwer, a national expert on hazing, "students are basically turning on other students for entertainment and sadistic behavior."

In January, UC Berkeley baseball rookies were discovered late one night in 34-degree weather blindfolded and wearing nothing but G-strings and shoes. In October 2006, a San Ramon Valley High football player was bound, dragged and kicked repeatedly in the groin during a locker room hazing.

Grahaeme Hesp, the director of Fraternity and Sorority Life at UC Berkeley, says hazing is a real issue outside of Greek life, too. (Karna Kurata/Staff)

And at Chico State, where 21-year-old Pleasant Hill resident Matthew Carrington died in 2005 of water intoxication compounded by hypothermia, members of Beta Theta Pi fraternity's Chico chapter are being prosecuted for forcing pledges to crawl through mud and submerging them up to their necks in icy water.

Those cases pale in comparison with the growing number of teens who have been beaten, sodomized or debased by friends and teammates. In the past month, police and school officials have investigated hazing-related sodomy or sexual assault cases at high schools in Florida, Illinois and Texas, and what appears to be another instance at a New Hampshire middle school.

WWII history
Initiation rituals may date to antiquity, but modern-day hazing is an unexpected byproduct of World War II and the GI Bill, said Grahaeme Hesp, director of fraternity and sorority life for UC Berkeley. [Ed. Note: Grahaeme Hesp is a SigEp]

"(Veterans) arrived on college campuses, 25-, 35-year-olds," Hesp said, "with the Army philosophy of 'break them down and build them back up' -- this is how you build a team."

That strategy has since lost favor in the military, but it continues to flourish on college campuses and, increasingly, on middle and high school grounds.

"The (Greek) community is more than aware of hazing," Hesp said. "But the challenge still exists in the marching band, athletics -- and it's also gone downward, so it's high school, middle school. Now we have people arriving having gone through some aspect of hazing. The hazed become the hazers."

Universities and national fraternity and sorority chapters have concentrated their efforts on raising awareness and promoting healthy team-building alternatives -- ropes courses, leadership training and a hefty emphasis on aligning values with actions -- but a large subsection of the youth population continues to haze, some without fully grasping what they're doing.

Nearly half the high school students who participate in band, athletics, church groups and other teen organizations have been hazed, researchers at Alfred University reported. Seventy-nine percent of NCAA athletes say they were hazed in high school -- a quarter before they were teens.

Speedo runs
It's clear where sexual assaults and beatings lie on the hazing spectrum. But head shavings, embarrassing garb and Speedo runs -- like the one that got a group of athletes suspended at Moraga's Campolindo High last year -- fall into a fuzzier category.

Hesp defines hazing as "anything that makes people feel uncomfortable emotionally, psychologically, physically."

What's team-building fun to one participant, Hesp said, may be deeply humiliating, even traumatic to someone else.

And even mild hazing can have lasting effects, said psychologist Susan Lipkins, author of "Preventing Hazing."

She remembers speaking with a 90-year-old man who was hazed at age 17. He had survived a desperate run through wartorn Europe, only to be hazed at a camp in Israel where he was grabbed and taunted as a burlap sack was pulled over his head. Recounting his story 73 years later, the elderly man flushed with humiliation and remembered feeling helpless.

"There's something about hazing," Lipkins said, "that holds onto your gut."

Meanwhile, the pressure to participate is intense.

"The desire to belong, whether to the baseball team, sorority chapter or marching band -- there is that level of peer pressure," Hesp said. "Everyone else is going along with it."

And often, they don't recognize hazing for what it is -- "the exertion of power over a weaker position," Hesp said.

That's partly why Lipkins isn't surprised hazing is prevalent among teen athletic teams. Coaches authorize their team captains to conduct drills and oversee locker rooms. Vested with that power and authority, she said, senior athletes use hazing as a means of discipline, punishment and reinforcement of a team's power structure.

"This is an unusually competitive culture," Lipkins said. "The pressure to win is so huge. Proving you are more worthy than the next person, winning at all costs. (These) are predisposing factors for a hazing."

Eric Stewart, a Minnesota teen who launched a pro-hazing group on Facebook, calls hazing "a necessary part of life. Without it those damn freshmen and sophomore(s) get cocky and seniors lose power."

Tom Hoyt, a Maryland high school student who oversees the "Hazing Squad," another Facebook group, sees two varieties of hazing.

"The varsity hockey team I was on was really cruel about hazing," he said in an e-mail. "Like dragging (my friend) from the shower room and tying him to a football post right after it had snowed. But I thought it would be fun if hazing was a joke and nobody took it seriously so that stuff like that wouldn't happen. In our school, the only thing we do is talk about hazing and intimidate the underclassmen."

Even tame traditions -- running through a football game in a Speedo, for example, or enforced calisthenics -- can spiral out of control because new hazers often feel compelled to add their own signature twists. One small thing is added, and then another one and another and "suddenly, it's a major issue," Hesp said.

This slippery slope "may be how alcohol consumption has become more extreme," Lipkins said, "and why hazing increasingly skids into the hazardous zone."

Efforts to combat hazing at the college level, Lipkins said, are derailed when high school students pack up their "hazing blueprint" and head to college.

"They do unto others what was done to them," Lipkins said, "and they feel as though they have the right and duty to pass on the tradition."

The result is that hazing prevention has become a Sisyphean task.

The adult role
The only thing that will make hazing stop, Hesp said, is the firm resolve of a coalition of schools, parents, coaches and authorities. Even then, it's easier said than done.

It's a cultural issue, Lipkins said, and change must begin with the attitudes of adults who have repressed or "reframed" the memories of their own hazings to salve their own discomfort.

Despite the presence of anti-hazing policies on nearly every college campus, the practice continues, said University of Maine professor Elizabeth Allan, who recently completed the pilot phase of a hazing study on 52 campuses. And hazing methods have become more severe and demeaning.

Particularly troubling are the pilot study data that found 40 percent of hazed athletes said their coaches knew about the team hazing, and 22 percent said the coaches actually participated.

Hesp finds adult participation and community reaction the most troubling aspects of hazing. He points to the notorious 2003 Chicago powderpuff game, which turned into an alcohol-fueled riot.

News footage, which was aired nationwide, showed senior girls pummeling juniors and dousing them in urine, feces and animal intestines. Several younger girls had to be hospitalized. And those arrested included two mothers who provided kegs.

"The world was shocked by the Chicago powderpuff," Hesp said, "especially when it was videotaped by parents and they did nothing."

It is far too common for adults to portray hazings as locker room horseplay that got out of hand, Lipkins said.

That was the excuse one poster added to an online discussion board last fall, after a San Ramon Valley High football player was assaulted in the locker room.

The school district didn't buy it. Four football players were thrown off the team, district spokesman Terry Koehne said. A parent meeting was called, and the 45-member team underwent three days of sensitivity training.

"It was a serious issue," Koehne said, "and we wanted to make sure we were on top of it."

Hazing was added to California's penal code only after the death of Chico State's Carrington. But in Massachusetts, it has been part of the criminal code for the past two decades, and bystanders who fail to report a hazing are subject to a $1,000 fine.

There has to be a system in place to deal with reported abuse, Lipkins said, and serious consequences must be enforced, not just for hazers but for the spectators who stood by and did nothing.

The message has to come from everyone.
"It has to come," Hesp said, "from the faculty and culture and team and marching band working together to send a collective message."

Reach Jackie Burrell at jburrell@bayareanewsgroup.com.
HAZING BY THE NUMBERS
48 - Percentage of high school students who have been hazed by members of athletic teams, music, church or other youth groups; 24 percent were hazed as part of a church youth group.

22 - Percentage of high school students who had participated in dangerous hazings; 21 percent of college students have been part of dangerous hazings

71 - Percentage of high school students subjected to hazing who reported negative long-term consequences, including injuries, anger management issues, concentration problems, anxiety, guilt and food and sleeping issues.

79 - Percentage of NCAA athletes hazed in high school; 25 percent were first hazed before age 13.

50 - Percentage of female NCAA Division I athletes who reported being hazed; 10 percent were beaten, branded, tattooed or had their heads shaved against their will.

40 - Percentage of college students who said their coach or club adviser was aware of the hazing; 22 percent reported their coach or adviser was actually involved in the hazing.

-- Sources: Alfred University Hazing Study (1996), Alfred University High School Hazing Study (2000), National Study of Student Hazing (2006 preliminary results)
WARNING SIGNS FOR PARENTS
After dealing with a hazing problem, it's easy to look back and think, "I should have known." But Susan Lipkins, author of "Preventing Hazing," said the warning signs of hazing are so similar to those of other emotional issues that it's easy to miss them.

The following warning signs may indicate your child is involved in a group that hazes as part of its initiation:
1. Adjusts too quickly to new situations and has instant friends.
2. Changes patterns of communication -- frequency, duration or tone.
3. Reduces contact with family and old friends.
4. Rise in new kinds of physical and mental problems -- exhaustion, broken bones, sprains, bruises, cuts and burns, sore throat, stomachaches, severe headaches, hospital visits -- or discrepancies in the student's explanation of the injury.
5. Develops new psychological symptoms -- changes in sleeping and eating patterns, anxiety, irritability, anger and negativity, poor concentration, drop in achievement, picking up obsessions or compulsions.
WHAT TEENS CAN DO
Teens are not powerless, Lipkins said. There are actions they can take before, during and after a hazing incident to protect themselves:

BEFORE:
1. If you intend to join a group that has initiation rites, try to find out what they are.
2. If you still want to participate, consider an exit strategy you can use if you believe you're in danger. For example, if you are one of 10 freshmen joining a football team, gather together beforehand and create a plan, so you can act together to prevent injury.
3. Discuss the definition of hazardous hazing within your group so everyone understands and agrees to act together as a group to stop the event or call authorities.
4. If you are already part of a group that has a tradition to haze at specific times, such as on your birthday, make a choice about participating that day. Any tradition has the potential to skid out of control.

DURING:
1. Be aware. Try to remember the layout of the area. Read the emotions of the perpetrators. Do not volunteer to be hazed, to be first or to try to please the group.
2. If you are asked to do something that is dangerous, or that you do not want to do, pay attention to your instincts. It can be dangerous to exit during an initiation rite alone. Plan ahead and try to find a group of like-minded individuals.

AFTER:
1. Safety first. If you are not sure you are physically OK, get medical attention. Internal bleeding, fractures and overdoses are serious and need to be attended to as quickly as possible.
2. When you are sure you're OK, get medical attention for others.
3. Be aware of psychological problems -- sleep issues, flashbacks, eating issues, anxiety, avoidance, depression and intense feelings. If you are experiencing any symptoms in these categories, get help.
Sometimes the psychological damage can be worse than the physical, especially if the trauma continues. Tell your parents; tell a doctor; talk to your school psychologist; call the number on the back of your medical insurance card and get a referral for a mental health professional; or call a teen crisis hotline (Contra Costa Crisis Center, 800-833-2900; Crisis Support Services of Alameda County, 800-309-2131).

-- Source: InsideHazing.com

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

What happens after?

After a service of remembrance Sunday for the victims of last weeks fatal beach house fire, firefighter Sean Ostmann gets a hug from a town resident at the Ocean Isle Beach Chapel with the candles for each of the victims lit in the foreground. The small ocean chapel that served as the safe zone for many of the survivors of last weeks tragedy, served as a community gathering spot this Sunday helping residents cope from the events of the past week. Firefighter Ostmann was one of the firemen who were dispatched to the fire scene last Sunday. Photo By Randall Hill/The Sun News

What caused the fire in North Carolina that killed seven students? Lots of opinions, few answers.

I was in Pawleys Island SC last week as the details emerged from the horrible fire. Pawleys is a beachfront community similar to Ocean Isle NC, 30 miles south of Myrtle Beach SC (Ocean Isle is 30 miles north of Myrtle Beach). The local newspapers were full of details, with pictures of the charred remains of the house, long biographies of the victims, and eyewitness reports from everyone who saw the tragedy unfold. It was hard to read. My daughter is in college as well. If she had been there I cannot conceive how I would recover from such a loss.

Here are some of the latest stories.

Memorial Service Slideshow:
Ocean Isle fire memorial service

The News-Press, news-press.com, Opinion, Booze killed college kids
Perhaps out of understandable concern for the feelings of the family, the role of alcohol in this tragedy is being played down.

That's wrong.

Students, parents and colleges need to face the likelihood that binge drinking played a part in the heartbreaking loss of seven promising young people. It's part of a sad pattern.

KWTX - HomePage
"Officials say a deadly house fire in a North Carolina beach town may have been sparked by smoking materials. But they say the preliminary investigation has not found a definite cause."

S.C. beach house deaths impact all students - Opinion
Amanda Goyer spent two years at South Carolina before transferring to Rhodes College. She was in the same Delta Delta Delta pledge class as Carly Pendley, the older sister of fellow Tri-Delt and victim Cassidy Pendley. Goyer also knew victim Allison Walden, who Goyer described as "a beautiful young woman with a graceful soul." Goyer created the Facebook group "Pray for the victims and friends and family of the Ocean Isle Fire."

"I started this group because I felt so far away from my sorority sisters, and I wanted to do anything possible to help and to show support," Goyer said through Facebook. "I didn't expect [the group's membership] to reach almost 10,000 people!"

newsobserver.com | Safety, and reason
It's impossible to say at this point whether an internal sprinkler system would have saved lives in the tragic Sunday house fire at Ocean Isle Beach where seven South Carolina college students perished. But the fire has raised questions as to whether North Carolina building and fire codes need to be upgraded to stricter standards for large beach homes.

WIStv.com Columbia, SC: Last funeral held Monday for victims of beach house fire
The funeral for the final victim of the North Carolina beach house fire was held Monday.

There was a celebration of Cassidy Pendley's life in North Charleston.

Cassidy was an honors student and varsity soccer player at Fort Dorchester High School in the Lowcountry.

She was a freshman at USC where she studied chemical engineering.

More than 200 people showed up for a memorial service at Ocean Isle Beach on Sunday.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Va Tech: At Least one Greek Victim

At least one of the victims at Va Tech was Greek. Her name was Caitlin Hammaren and she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma.
KKG | Virginia Tech

Also, the New York Times has a list and short biographies of all the victims.

Letter from VA Tech Chapter President

We received this email from Chandler Givens, Chapter President of VA Kappa. He asked that we pass it along. We are glad to do it.
...I have received a myriad of emails/calls from brothers all over the country, if you would like to post the e-mail which I have sent to all chapters, I would like them to know that we appreciate it.

Chandler
-----Original Message-----
From: Chandler Givens
Sent: Mon 4/16/2007 7:29 PM
To: Kaminski, Bryan
Cc:
Subject: Letter to send to nationals for all chapters to read

Today Virginia Tech experienced an unimaginable tragedy of scale never before seen in the United States.

Over the past 24 hours the VA Kappa chapter has received a vast array of e-mails and phone calls from Sig Ep chapters around the country expressing their concern. I would like to personally thank all of you who have gone out of your way to show your chapters support, it means a lot to us to know that brothers whom we never even met have a sincere concern for their counter-parts miles away in Blacksburg.

We are working closely with nationals and internally to try to help begin to cope with the tragic loss of our fellow students here at Virginia Tech. As of 6:30PM today (4/16) all members of VA Kappa chapter have been accounted for. We are extremely fortunate that none have been directly afflicted, however; the scope of the damage done today is far-reaching, and it will be a long while before things return to normal.

We hope to come together as a brotherhood and begin to heal and move forward in a positive direction. Updates may be found on our website:http://www.SigEpVT.org. The hearts and prayers of the VA Kappa chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon go out to all who were affected today by these senseless acts of violence.

Thank you again for all of your support,

Chandler Givens
President
VA Kappa Chapter
Sigma Phi Epsilon

Monday, April 16, 2007

HQ Statement on the events at VA Tech.


Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity

Zollinger House, Richmond, Virginia

April 16, 2007

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Contact: Christopher T. Minnis, Director of Operations

Phone: 804-353-1901, ext. 315 FAX: 804-359-8160

SigEp

UPDATE

Richmond, Virginia Sigma Phi Epsilon mourns the unimaginable loss of life at Virginia Tech Monday morning. Thankfully, all the men of the Virginia Kappa Chapter are accounted for and safe. Chapter members are deeply grateful for the outpouring of support shown by members across the country. Chapter leadership is working swiftly to provide support and guidance to chapter members as they cope with this terrible tragedy. Chapter President Chandler Givens posted the following to the chapter web site at [www.sigepvt.org]:

Over the past couple of hours I have received numerous e-mails and phone calls regarding the status of the Virginia Kappa brotherhood here at Virginia Tech. There has been a tremendous outpouring of support, and I would like to personally thank all those whom have taken the time to express their concern for our brothers during this time of tragedy...We are gathering those of the chapter who wish to mourn together tonight at our chapter house, and we plan on meeting tomorrow and attending the memorial service, together as one...As of now, I have heard of no brother directly involved in the incident. The hearts and prayers of the Virginia Kappa chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon go out to those who have suffered today in the midst of this senseless act of violence.

Brother Givens went on to post later this evening that all members have been accounted for and are safe.

Regional Director Bryan Kaminski is now on-site to support the chapter during this difficult time. The Headquarters staff is working to refer those seeking help to the appropriate professional counseling services. The chapter anticipates participating in a university-wide gathering on Tuesday at 2:00 p.m.

FLASH! At least 20 dead in campus shootings - CNN.com

Update 6:30 PM CDT: Va Kappa Chapter President Chandler Givins reports all SigEp members are accounted for and are unharmed. VA Kappa chapter web site has been updated.

Update 4:30 PM CDT: Va Tech Press conference reports a total of 33 deaths, including the shooter. Investigation is ongoing.
Link to VA Kappa chapter web site has been updated with a statement from the chapter president.

Update 3:00 PM CDT: CNN reports 32 dead, including the shooter. President Bush makes public statment of sorrow and pledges administration support for investigation.

Update 1:30 PM CDT: CNN reports 31 dead, 29 wounded.No news yet on status of individual members.

Update 11:51 CDT: CNN reports 22 dead. Comparing it to Columbine and Chas. Whitman at U of Texas in '64.

I don't know what is happening here, but it looks ugly. Anyone on scene please comment.
The Virginia Tech Police Chief said at least 20 people were killed in twin shootings on the Blacksburg campus Monday morning.

"Some victims were shot in a classroom," Chief Wendell Flinchum said, adding that the gunman was dead.

President Charles Steger called the shootings "a tragedy of monumental proportions."
Chief: At least 20 dead in campus shootings - CNN.com

Sunday, April 15, 2007

Critics: Frats refuse to reform

Rider student's death isn't the first and won't be the last, hazing foes say
BY DARRYL R. ISHERWOOD

It is sometime after midnight as 14 pledges complete a solemn fraternity initiation ritual and are led to the basement of the fraternity house.

The booze laid out for them must be finished before the pledges leave the house, the young men are told. Most get sick as they drink, but one is sicker than the rest. He vomits. Fraternity brothers, fearing the freshman may choke, lay the incoherent 18-year-old face down on a couch.

Some time later, help is called.

But it is too late; the pledge is dead. Authorities later learn his blood-alcohol level reached .434, more than five times the legal limit to drive a car.

While some of the circumstances sound eerily similar to those reported by friends and law enforcement officials in the recent alcohol poisoning death of 18-year-old Rider University freshman Gary DeVercelly, the death of that pledge, freshman James Callahan, took place 19 years before, on the campus of Rutgers University in New Brunswick.

As a result of Callahan's death, 15 Lambda Chi Alpha brothers were indicted for hazing and his mother, Jane Callahan, filed a lawsuit naming the fraternity, the university, the national chapter and the liquor store that sold the members the booze that killed her son.

While no charges have been filed in the Rider case, investigators have labeled the Long Beach, Calif., native's death at the Lawrence school a possible hazing incident.

Regardless of the outcome, anti-hazing advocates say the system designed to protect pledges like DeVercelly and Callahan and dozens of others who have died over the years is flawed and won't be fixed until the fraternities and sororities themselves admit the problem.

"I believe the fraternity industry has known the shortcomings (of its risk-management policies) for a long time and has done nothing to fix it," said Douglas Fierberg, a Washington, D.C., attorney who has represented numerous victims of hazing and alcohol-related deaths nationwide.

There is a "duck and cover" mentality among universities and fraternities when an alcohol- or hazing-related death occurs, Fierberg said, and for that reason little has changed.

BANDING TOGETHER
In an effort to deal with liability issues, a group of 47 national fraternities and sororities has banded together in an organization known as the Fraternal Information Program Group. According to the FIPG Web site, the organization's goal is "to be the one-stop resource for risk-management education ..." for the entire campus community.

The Times made several efforts to reach the group's officers by phone and e-mail over two days, but members -- all of whom also are officers in national fraternities and sororities -- did not reply. Likewise, representatives of the Phi Kappa Tau fraternity, which is under investigation in connection with DeVercelly's death, also declined comment.

A spokeswoman for Phi Kappa Tau's national office in Oxford, Ohio, also did not return several calls and e-mails, preferring instead to issue a series of statements in support of DeVercelly and his family. The national chapter's president, who is listed as a director of the FIPG, also did not return a call or e-mail.

However, FIPG has issued a risk-management policy that all 47 member organizations -- including DeVercelly's Phi Kappa Tau and Callahan's Lambda Chi Alpha -- adhere to.
The policy addresses issues such as hazing, alcohol abuse and sexual abuse and harassment, according to the group's Web site.

Among the tenets are 10 related to alcohol use, including the requirement for all members to adhere to state laws regarding drinking. The policy restricts in-house activities and prohibits drinking games. It also forbids the use of alcohol in pledge events.

But the policy does not require the fraternities to ban alcohol and instead puts students in charge of policing themselves, Fierberg says.

He said it is predicated on keeping dues-paying members and alumni happy rather than on pledge and member safety.

"For at least eight years, the industry has known that alcohol-free housing is the safe way to run a fraternity," Fierberg said, citing a 1997 study done by a national organization of fraternities that recommended dry housing across the country.

"But they won't go dry. What they prefer to do instead is create a policy full of holes implemented by underage, ill-trained fraternity members who have no knowledge whatsoever of the dangers involved in managing alcohol policies in fraternities," he said.

EMPHASIS ON PROTECTION
The organizations' focus on protecting themselves is also evident in the "Risk Management Manual" put out by FIPG, Fierberg says.

Among its 80 or so pages are sections dealing with the role of various fraternity officers and policies on hazing and drinking.

But the most tell-tale section of the book, Fierberg said, is one called "Crisis Management Plan," which instructs members how to act in the event of an emergency.

Among the instructions is one directing members to immediately close the house and limit outgoing phone calls if a tragedy occurs.

"Do not discuss the situation until the National Representative, chapter advisor, or housing corporation president arrives," the manual reads. "Instruct your members to make no statements to anyone other than fraternity/sorority officials.

"As the president, you make any appropriate statements to the media after the situation is under control and you have discussed the content of your statement with school and fraternity/sorority officials and have been given permission by the National Office."

There is even a section on what to do if a member becomes ill or dies and another if a member attempts suicide.

"Only with the permission and instructions of your National Office should you call the family to offer sympathy on behalf of the chapter," it says.

The brothers of Phi Kappa Tau seem to have followed at least some of the manual's recommendations when dealing with DeVercelly's death.

After news broke of the pledge's death, fraternity members said they were told not to talk to the media, instead issuing a statement through the national office. A representative of the national chapter was dispatched to Rider to help deal with the crisis, and the house was closed.

The risk manual, which the FIPG site lists as under revision, can be found on numerous college, university and fraternity Web sites nationwide.

DEATHS RESULT IN JAIL TIME
But given the history of fraternity-related deaths, it is little wonder that the organizations are concerned with managing the risk. There has been at least one fraternity-related death every year since 1970 except last year, according to Hank Nuwer, a Franklin College professor who tracks fraternity hazing incidents.

In previous fraternity-related deaths, members faced criminal charges resulting in jail time and national chapters and universities have been hit with civil lawsuits totaling millions of dollars.

In Callahan's death, 15 Lambda Chi Alpha members were indicted on hazing charges, eventually completing a pretrial intervention program. Callahan's mother Jane settled a civil suit with the fraternity for nearly $400,000.

In 1995, Princeton University was sued by a student who had been drinking at student eating clubs and fraternities off campus before climbing atop an NJ Transit train and grabbing hold of a metal device that connects the train to the wires above.

The resulting 11,000-volt shock cost the student both legs and part of his left arm. His lawsuit named several parties, including the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity and the university and was eventually settled by all parties for $5.7 million.

In 2004, a Miami-Dade County jury awarded $12.6 million to the parents of a drunken University of Miami freshman who drowned swimming across a lake in a swim organized by two members of Kappa Sigma. The suit was later settled for a confidential amount.

And in February 2005, Matthew Carrington, a pledge in the Chi Tau fraternity at California State University at Chico died during a pledging ritual that involved drinking gallons of water while exercising in a cold basement.

In that case, prosecutors filed felony charges and four Chi Tau members received sentences ranging from 90 days to a year in jail.

LIABILITY LOOMS LARGE
Experts say that, like those cases, the potential liability in a death like DeVercelly's is enormous.

"In a civil situation it comes down to 'foreseeability,'" said Mitch Crane, a former judge in Pennsylvania and a staunch anti-hazing advocate. "If this is an activity that resulted in an injury, not only is the organization that delivered the activity responsible, but anyone who had the authority to oversee it would be responsible if they could foresee it."

Crane said depending on the outcome of the investigation, Rider University itself could face liability because it is a private institution.

Officials at the university have said they cannot address the circumstances surrounding DeVercelly's death or potential ramifications because of the ongoing investigation.

To begin to deal with the fallout from the tragic death, the university has established a presidential panel charged with reviewing policies on campus related to drinking and fraternities. The panel is made up mostly of university faculty and administration and is set to begin meeting this week. Officials said the panel's recommendations should be complete before the end of the semester, sometime next month.

Faced with similar tragedies, reactions from universities and fraternities throughout the nation have been varied.

At Rutgers, officials shuttered the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity and banished it from campus. At Princeton, where a student was hospitalized after a 1990 fraternity drinking party, students were punished, but officials could do little to the fraternity as the Greek letter organizations operate independently of the university.

Fraternities themselves also have taken on the dual problems of hazing and binge drinking. Faced with the risks involved, at least one national fraternity has gone alcohol-free and another has abolished pledging altogether.

At Alfred University in Alfred, N.Y., the site of two fraternity-related deaths including one highly publicized hazing incident in 1978, a panel similar to the one formed at Rider recommended abolishing the Greek system completely.

What will result from DeVercelly's tragic death is unknown. But what is sure, Fierberg and others say, is that until the system is reformed and hazing and alcohol abuse are curtailed, the laid-back freshman from Long Beach will not be the last to die.

"All of this is a secret until the parents get a call that their son or daughter is dead," Fierberg said. "Unfortunately, most parents don't find out until it's too late."

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Campus Tragedy Never Forgotten

Hearts still mending, 20 years after sorority tragedy
By Errol Castens

The first dogwood blooms and greening grass decorated the early spring afternoon two decades ago as about 50 members of the University of Mississippi's Chi Omega sorority chapter made their annual fundraising trek along State Highway 6.

That Thursday was the kind of day you might want to remember forever, if the circumstances had remained idyllic.

"For those of us closely involved, March 26 never loses its significance," said Mary Ann Fruge, who was Tau Chapter adviser when tragedy struck that day in 1987.

For Dr. Thomas J. "Sparky" Reardon, his life was forever marked by the moment. "It was probably one of the toughest things I've ever had to deal with," recalled Reardon, then Ole Miss' associate dean of students.

"It's one of those indelible times in your life. There seems to be a special clarity about it."

As in previous years, the Chi O's had begun their walk-a-thon for the Kidney Foundation of Mississippi at the McDonald's restaurant in Batesville, taking turns walking and riding toward their house on the University of Mississippi campus, 23 miles to the east.

But this time, tragedy lay in wait just a few miles shy of home.

Robert Lee Davis of Senatobia was towing a hay baler eastbound on the highway. His white Ford flatbed truck overtook the walkers and the blue Nissan Maxima that served as their escort. Although he was reportedly within the speed limit and could see several hundred yards ahead, Davis crashed into the Maxima, and both vehicles plowed into the line of walkers ahead.

The injured screamed in pain, the uninjured in horror.

To this day, the memory is so harsh that survivors contacted by the Daily Journal chose not to speak about it.

Retired teacher Ellen Wright was one of the first motorists to arrive after the disaster. She told the Oxford Eagle in a report from that day, "It looked like somebody had taken a handful of toys and threw them up in the air and strewed them everywhere.

"Wright raced with a friend to nearby Williams Antiques to call for help in that pre-cellphone era.

C.L. Keen, who had waved at the women as they passed his house just minutes before, went to help and found himself mostly helpless.

"I couldn't do anything," he recalled days later as he talked with a Commercial Appeal reporter. "I'll tell you what I would have given $100 for a wet towel, just to bathe their faces.

"Two young women died on the scene.

Several survivors were taken to Oxford-Lafayette Medical Center, now Baptist Memorial Hospital-North Mississippi, and some reportedly went to a hospital in Jackson.

Those injured worst were taken to Regional Medical Center in Memphis. Before another day came and went, three of them would die.

Today, friends of all these students are starting to buy reading glasses and look for the occasional gray hair, but Margaret Gardner and Robin Simmons of Tupelo, Elizabeth Gage Roberson of Greenwood, Ruth Hess Worsham of Corinth and Mary Pat Langford of Atlanta are forever young.

In Tupelo, Margaret Gardner and Robin Simmons are forever remembered by a home for girls that bears their name, The Gardner-Simmons Home.

Anne Cochet was working at Dr. Glenn Hunt's obstetrics clinic in Oxford less than a block from the hospital when they heard a mass of sirens."He put his instruments down and told me he was going to be gone," she said.

"All the doctors in town were called in.

"Dr. L.G. Hopkins was one of them."We didn't keep count of the injured; they came pouring in," said the now-retired general practitioner. "Every physician who was in town responded, and we just took care of people until they were all taken care of."

Cochet phoned her husband, who pastors College Hill Presbyterian Church, and met him at the hospital.

"We saw people experiencing great anguish," the Rev. Alan Cochet said. "It was also a time when we saw people asking very hard questions what, why, how that come in the midst of tragedies like this."

I was personally blessed by the tender pastoral care that I saw from other pastors and the campus ministry people, loving and listening and praying and comforting seeing Christ in the midst of the crisis."

Back at the Ole Miss campus, officials including then-Chancellor Gerald Turner started phoning the families of victims, both dead and alive.

As if things weren't frantic enough, the campus' phone lines went out."

Down in the Delta, someone had (accidentally) cut major telephone cables," recalled Dr. Judy Trott, then-dean of students. "We couldn't give any information out (to the media) until we had notified the families, and it took them five or six or seven hours to get the phone lines fixed."

Roughly a third of the Chi-O's had been on the walk. The others gathered at their sorority house, shocked and grieving.

"Total hysteria spread when we found out there were over two fatalities," said DeDe Dunlap, then a Chi Omega from Ridgely, Tenn. "I didn't know how to feel at first."Trott maintained her presence at the Chi O house.

"The girls didn't know what to do, either," she admitted. "I did what I could to keep them calm, reassure them that everything was being done that could be done."

As word spread of the tragedy, expressions of sympathy and support began appearing both locally and from across the nation.

Keen, who lived near the wreck site, erected five white wooden crosses at the scene, giving people a place to focus their grief.

A permanent stone marker stands there today, started by a $200 donation and a challenge from a local businessman.

"Flowers kept coming in and coming in," Trott said. The Chi Omega house filled with them. "Finally I had to call the florists and ask them to stop bringing them."

Reardon, who also provided an adult presence at the sorority house, was one who spent much of the night arranging a memorial service first planned for Fulton Chapel, then moved to the Tad Smith Coliseum to accommodate an estimated 4,000 people who would attend.

By the time the memorial began at noon Friday, "There was a program, there was an organ, there was a program printed," he recalled.

"Gerald Turner was really wise to bring us together at that point. "The chancellor, who was also a professor of psychology, warned students that adrenaline had sustained them thus far, and that when the shock subsided they must not let down their support for those most affected.

"We must provide a loving, supporting community for those who have been touched by this tragedy," he said. Paraphrasing William Faulkner's Nobel Prize acceptance speech, he added, "You can, you will and you must endure, and then you must prevail."

Prevailing would take a while. With funerals for four of the five victims being held on Saturday and Sunday, it was a somber weekend on campus.

Then-ASB President Nancy Horton apologized for the quiet atmosphere to the more than 500 visitors who had come for the usually raucous Spring Visit Weekend. A few fraternities and sororities previously had scheduled dances but found them subdued. The annual Greek Games were canceled."What was so profound and surprising was the ripple effect of how it affected students who did not know the girls at all," said Susan Eftink, then a counselor in the Department of Student Development and now a professor of social work.

By Sunday after the wreck, a crisis counseling team arrived from the National Organization for Victims Assistance, a group that had been born in the aftermath of a mass shooting at a California McDonald's.

"Within those first few days, there were so many students who needed help," Eftink remembered. "Then we found we needed to work with the EMTs and people at the hospital, then people in the community who knew no one involved: It brought up past losses that they'd had. We tried to provide services for the whole community.

"The clergy continued their work as well. In 1987, the Rev. Duncan Gray III, now bishop of the Mississippi Diocese, was rector at St. Peter's Episcopal Church in Oxford.

"People deal with traumas in different ways," he recalled last week. "I listened to a lot of stories of friendships." One complication, Gray said, was guilt and confusion heaped on survivors.

"A lot of them were dealing with things that had been said right after the accident that this was God's will and that it was a sign for people to get their lives together pretty quickly," he said.

It took a summer break before Ole Miss was its normal energetic self again.

"The whole campus, for the rest of the semester, didn't feel right," Eftink assessed.

Dr. Jean Jones, then director of student development at Ole Miss, told the Daily Mississippian a few days after the tragedy, "We are all victims in some way of this horrible event, but we are getting things in place so that we can go on with our lives."
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