Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Friday, December 14, 2012

How NOT to do a SigEp video.

The overwhelming majority of online videos about SigEp send a positive message about the fraternity and its members. Even the ones that show brothers displaying um, character flaws, are not generally mean spirited even if they don't show us in the best light. 

However, occasionally a video shows up that is best used as a cautionary tail. Such is the one I have here today. 

While I would not call the video NSFW, exactly, you may feel otherwise. There are a few clips that get very close to the line. 


Questions to ask yourself before posting SigEp videos:

  1. How does this affect the SigEp image? Positve? Negative?
  2. If a potential member sees this video will he be more or less likely to consider SigEp?
  3. If a parent see this video will he or she have a positive response?
Note I said nothing about production values. That is on purpose. Some of you may be aspiring to a career in video and this is a good place to practice and get better. Just be aware that "Content is King." I'm looking forward to your comments.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

USC fraternity official 'appalled' by photos of couple having sex on rooftop

I'm Shocked! Shocked, I tell you! I just found out that college students have been having sex!

A top official at the board for fraternities at USC expressed outrage over photos posted online that apparently showed two people having sex on the roof of the school's Waite Phillips Hall.

The photos of the man and woman went viral after they were posted Saturday night, according to a report in the Daily Trojan, which broke the story.

On Monday night, the paper quoted USC Interfraternity Council President Pat Lauer as saying the group was “appalled by the actions associated with the individuals in the pictures, and will work tirelessly to reverse the negative stereotypes such an action has perpetuated.”

The Daily Trojan quoted a statement released by the president of USC Kappa Sigma acknowledging that the man in the photos was a fraternity member.

"While the actions that were taken did involve a member of our chapter we, in no way, support this kind of behavior, nor do we promote any such actions," Zach Timm was quoted as saying.

Timm said inquiries into the incident had been launched and that the fraternity member seen in the photos had been suspended "for conduct unbecoming of a Kappa Sigma and a gentleman."
Yah. A true Kappa Sig Gentleman would not have gotten caught.

You want better pictures? Here you go. just click. NSFW - trust me.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Northwestern Dancefloor Disaster

Oh no she did-n't...?
College On the Record has this account of the "Prep Party" at Northwestern.
Both parties had their fair share of beer, body heat and bad R&B, but Sig Ep takes the cake for controversy. The prep party got broken up around 1 a.m. but at least the stage didn't collapse this time. Although reports are coming in of another type of instability happening on the dancefloor...

It's a tale as old as time: the freshman blonde from Bobb trying to impress the senior frat brother by... going down on him? In the middle of the dancefloor?? Surrounded by the sweaty, drunken underage crowds???
There is more, including a rumor of video (sadly, not provided). It defies further comment.

Northwestern OTR: Dancefloor Disaster at the Northwestern Sig Ep Prep Party

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

UNM Suspends Three of Six Fraternities

University of New Mexico frats suspended after allegations
Albuquerque Tribune
By Maggie Shepard

Three of the University of New Mexico's six fraternities have been placed on emergency suspension in the span of a week, meaning they can't participate in the annual rush week or other social activities.

Sigma Alpha Epsilon was suspended Aug. 14 after UNM police arrested a member on charges he had sex with several underage girls.

Phi Delta Theta was suspended on Aug. 17 after parents of a 16-year-old girl told university officials they found her passed out drunk at the fraternity house.

Kappa Sigma was suspended on Aug. 21 after an investigation into an early morning fight led UNM police to believe alcohol - which isn't allowed in any fraternity, sorority or student housing - was involved.

In response to the suspensions, which Dean of Student Affairs Randy Boeglin called an unprecedented number, the university is creating a Greek Life Task Force to examine how to more positively shape the future of fraternities and sororities on campus.

Boeglin said university President David Schmidly asked him to create the task force.

"First, we will deal with these incidents," Boeglin said. "And second, and more importantly, we will work to establish a new positive context for Greek life."

Boeglin said the week's incidents don't indicate the fraternity system on campus is out of control.

"I think this is a question not of chapters' holding the wrong types of events, (but of) individual chapter members' making very poor choices in terms of their decision-making, which chapters have to bear responsibility for," Boeglin said. "These look to be highly dubious decisions by individuals."

At least two individual fraternity members are being investigated by the university on code-of-conduct violation allegations.

Boeglin said that number could increase as investigations into the three incidents continue.

The fraternities will be scheduled for a hearing before a committee to decide if the emergency suspension should be lifted or kept in place.

Sigma Alpha Epsilon was suspended in 2005 after police were called to investigate another sexual misconduct allegation. The fraternity's emergency suspension was later lifted.

Boeglin said about 500 UNM students are registered with some sort of fraternity or sorority. Five fraternities and four sororities have houses on or off campus. Several other organizations operate as fraternities and sororities but do not have housing for members.

University of New Mexico frats suspended after allegations

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Drexel Fraternity Web Site Gets Them Suspended

Delta Sigma Phi chapter suspended
By Aditi Dubey
The Triangle
Drexel University

The alumni of Delta Sigma Phi fraternity decided to suspend the Gamma Chi chapter at Drexel University June 13 amid allegations of X-rated pictures of female Drexel students being posted on the group's internal Web site.

The current undergraduate members have been removed from the fraternity house, located at 214 N. 34th Street. The chapter will be reorganized in fall.The decision came after allegations were made against the fraternity for having objectionable content on their internal Web site, which only the brothers of the fraternity can access.

According to a message sent to the presidents of all Drexel sororities by an anonymous source, the Web site has links to Facebook profiles and had posted pictures of over a hundred women."Recently it has come to my attention that the brothers of Delta Sigma Phi have dedicated a portion of their member Web site to the degradation of Drexel women," the letter said. "Under headings such as 'jawn spotting' and 'smuts,' brothers can access your pictures, Facebook profile links, a list of brothers who have been with you, nicknames, comments about you and even a place where the men can rank you."The letter further said that this internal Web site also had "X-rated" content and derogatory "falsehoods" against the women, including whether or not they had any sexually transmitted diseases and accusations of sexual promiscuity."Not only is it voyeurism, and pornography, it is also morally wrong," the letter said. "I can not even express in this e-mail how disgusted and disturbed I was to see the comments written about some of your unsuspecting women. I leave it to every chapter to handle this situation as they please."

The sender of the above letter is not yet identified to the public and it could not be ascertained whether all of the allegations against the fraternity are true. The entire Web site of the chapter has since been reorganized and the "brothers-only" section was deleted, according to Charles Williams, president of the Gamma Chi Alumni Corporation of Delta Sigma Phi.

"All of the current undergraduate members were immediately denied access to the brothers-only section of the Web site, which no longer exists," Williams said. "We took the word of our undergrads that some of these allegations were true and took action to make sure that none of this questionable content would ever be seen again. We worked with the Department of Public Safety to permanently destroy that content.

"Williams also said that the alumni of the chapter had no information that any of the above was going on since they have no access to the "brothers-only" section and were not aware of the objectionable content being posted on the site.

"The allegation that alumni had access to the brothers-only section of the Web site is absolutely and entirely false," Williams said. "Had any of our alumni known that there was content of a questionable nature on the Web site, action would have been taken immediately. There are over one thousand innocent Drexel alumni that are being libeled by this anonymous writer and I want that to be stopped immediately.

"The alumni of Delta Sig only have access to a member database, which is used to keep in touch with other members of the fraternity, and a calendar function letting them know about upcoming events, Williams told The Triangle.

"Our alumni board acted immediately and I personally confiscated the Web site server that evening to ensure that there would be no attempt at covering up," Williams said.

According to Williams, the undergraduate members admitted that some of the above allegations were true and the others were not."There were other serious allegations made that-as far as we can tell-were completely false," Williams said.

"What we found when we investigated was in poor taste, but we found no evidence at all of the worst accusations. The content in poor taste was still of great concern to us, as it did not align with our high moral standards and the values our organization represents.

"Williams also said that the decision of the alumni to reorganize the chapter was not solely based on the above incidents and allegations. "These allegations were not the primary driver of our decision to restructure the chapter," Williams said.

"Plans were already in motion, but this incident did provide us with the confidence and proof to move forward, and that what we were doing was necessary and right."Since March, the alumni have had concerns about whether the chapter had "the 'right' group of men" and therefore decided to keep both the individual and organizational performance of the chapter under close observation in order to reach the best decision, according to Williams.

"Our recent decision to re-structure the chapter came after nearly four months of observation, discussion and coordination with both the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life and our national organization," Williams said.

In a letter sent to Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life and the Greek community at the University, Williams wrote that the chapter was being suspended and because the undergraduate members were not holding up to the established, "non-negotiable" code-of-conduct.

"Grades, risk management and leadership, essential cornerstones to maintaining a healthy chapter, have been areas of increasing concern," said the letter from Williams. "These men are not bad men, but we have found that they are simply not living up to the lofty values that make Delta Sigma Phi the respected institution that we work so hard to protect…Effective Saturday, June 16th, the chapter as the campus currently knows it will cease operations and we will immediately begin re-building operations.

"A letter of apology has since been issued by the chapter president of the Delta Sigma Phi, Michael Colligan, to the chapter presidents of all the sororities on campus, saying that actions of those brothers were not in accordance with the values of Delta Sigma Phi and that the alumni are working diligently to "repair the wrongs in the chapter and bring a return to living the ideals of Delta Sigma Phi for all its members.

"E-mails sent to Colligan for comment were not returned. E-mails were also sent to other brothers of the fraternity, Jordan Eggles and David Zoltowski, who referred The Triangle back to Williams.

Another of the brothers, Eric Stephenson, a senior majoring in Entrepreneurship, said that most of the allegations in the anonymous letter were false."I did not have the opportunity to see the letter that went out to the sororities, although I know that it contained a lot of inaccurate information," Stephenson said.

"There were no naked pictures. Any pictures that were on the site were taken from Facebook or other public domains. Some of the pictures did have comments, to my knowledge none of them referenced STDs."

The Delta Sigma house, which is University-owned property, has not been shut down. According to Williams, the alumni took over the house for approximately one week to do some necessary repairs during the term-break. "At the beginning of summer term, a select group of 'core individuals,' who are undergraduates, will be invited to move back in to join the alumni advisors in the rebuilding process," Williams said.

"Our goal is to be back at full steam in the fall and participate in the fall rush process."The Office of FSL provided alternative housing options for the dislocated former members of Delta Sigma Phi. Accommodation in University residence halls was offered to the brothers and a list of available API apartments was provided as well.

"Delta Sigma Phi is an organization that believes in values, moral standards and gentlemanly conduct," Williams said. "We are taking this action to ensure the entire Drexel Community that those are not empty words."The fraternity has not been asked to leave the University campus and the Office of FSL has supported the reorganization.

"We want the fraternity on campus and they are still in good standing," said Stephen Rupprecht, assistant dean for Fraternity and Sorority Life."

Look for Delta Sig be back in the fall, stronger than ever," Stephenson said in an e-mail. "We've been one of the strongest chapters on this campus for over 50 years and we're not going anywhere."Rupprecht also said that the University has not closed a chapter on its own since the mid-1990s.

Just as for Delta Sigma Phi, it's usually the alumni or the student leaders that first address the concerns within a chapter."This is not the first time a chapter has been re-organized at Drexel and it certainly won't be the last time," Rupprecht said.

"We continue to challenge our alumni to provide oversight to their chapters that is consistent with the values of the organization. When the students demonstrate behavior that is ever inconsistent with the organization values, we expect someone from the alumni advisory team to address this behavior if the student leadership does not."The University steps in only if the students do not correct this behavior and if the alumni do not correct this behavior, Rupprecht told The Triangle.

The Office of FSL is confident that the reorganization will be a positive step for the chapter."By looking at a larger view of their organization, they [alumni of Delta Sigma Phi] determined that the organization was not going in the direction they wished it to, so instead of just doing nothing they decided to take responsibility for the future direction of the organization," Rupprecht said.

"This is exactly what our alumni boards are supposed to do; they made a very good decision and a proactive decision."Also, the Panhellenic Council at the University has since approved 'a proposal regarding the victimization of women' to establish a protocol for the sororities to take action against incidents similar to this."Delta Sigma Phi incident was the catalyst for the composition of this proposal," Katie Ludgate, president of PHC and a sophomore majoring in communications, said. "However, this proposal does not strictly apply to this isolated incident. It is a working protocol for future reference if something like this were to happen again."


Delta Sigma Phi chapter suspended - News

Fraternity "Entertainment" includes Prostitutes

Toledo prostitution ring tied to fraternity

Threads of a national initiative to stop the underage sex trade have once again led to Toledo.
This time, they're also tied to an international African-American fraternity that last year celebrated its 100th anniversary during a glitzy, star-studded convention in Washington.

During the four-day Alpha Phi Alpha convention, prosecutors said, North Toledoan Kevin Murphy provided several prostitutes through an escort service he ran under the names "Janelle's Sophisticated Ladies" and "Erotic Angels."

Among those prostitutes: a barely 16-year-old Toledo girl.

She and the adult prostitutes would "dance and strip" for convention-goers, Assistant U.S. Attorney David Bauer told federal Judge David Katz yesterday. "Mr. Murphy … made members of this fraternity aware that women were available for other services - in other words, prostitution services," Mr. Bauer said.

Murphy, 48, of 3394 Cherry St., yesterday pleaded guilty to five felony charges in U.S. District Court in Toledo. He faces at least five years in prison because of a mandatory sentence for compelling underage prostitution.

Investigators said a fraternity contact would offer Murphy information about conventions, and Murphy would transport his prostitutes. Mr. Bauer did not name the fraternity contact, but he did say it did not appear to be a high-level decision to bring in prostitutes.

"There is no evidence that organizers or national officers had any knowledge this was going on," he said.

Murphy offered prostitutes at several fraternity conventions last year, including meetings in Peoria, Ill., and Dearborn, Mich., Mr. Bauer said.

Investigators learned of the arrangement during their "Innocence Lost" investigations, a national initiative to stop the underage sex trade. Investigators made several prostitution-related arrests last July 25 at the Marriott Wardman Park Hotel during the national Alpha Phi Alpha convention, Mr. Bauer said in court. According to news reports at the time, more than 5,000 people attended, including Congressional representatives, actor Lou Gossett, Jr., and Grammy Award-winner Lionel Richie.

William Lyle, director of communications for the fraternity's national office, told The Blade he was not aware of the arrests last year in Washington and does not know Murphy.

Joe Conley, who works in the University of Toledo's legal affairs department and is president of the UT's Alpha Phi Alpha alumni chapter, also said he did not know Murphy or of the arrests. "This is the first I've heard of it, and it's really troubling," Mr. Conley said.

A sentencing hearing has not been scheduled.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Sex May Have Been Part of Cash-for-Grades Scheme

(Courtesy of The Fratboy News)

Student Says Community College Cash-for-Grades Scheme May Have Involved Sex

In what sounds like a scheme straight out of the movie 'Slackers,' police are now saying sex may have been involved in a ring of students at Diablo Valley Community College who were said to have charged classmates about $600 per grade to change the final marks on their transcripts at the school's registrar.

Police have been investigating the ring of cheating for about 16 months. They said the students orchestrated a cash-for-grades system, where students who worked in the office would change the grades on the transcript for a charge.

About 84 students were believed to have been involved in suspiciously changing more than 400 grades. Since May, about 20 students have been cleared of all charges. The rest could face charges from real police for falsifying records.

A student was reported to have come forward and said that sometimes sex was exchanged in lieu of cash for the grades.

Police say the scam now dates back to 2000, and many of the students have transferred to four-year colleges using the transcripts.

Monday, March 05, 2007

Hooking-up - a girl thing?

Every so often I see something that makes me nostalgic for the 70's. Remember the 70's? "Drugs. Sex. Rock 'n Roll."
I'm told I had a wonderful time.

Anyway, here is video of the Today Show segment on college age and 20-something women "hooking up" instead of looking for love.

Also excerpts from the book one of the commentators is selling. (Somebody is always selling a book, you know.)

It sort of brings the "Sorority Shots"(NSFW) from FratBoy News into perspective.
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